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  • About us
    • A message from our Vicar
    • Our Vision
    • Our Team
    • History
    • 800th Anniversary
    • Giving
  • Ministry
    • Baptisms
    • Weddings
    • Funerals
    • Discipleship groups
    • Open the book
    • TKC
    • Music
  • Wider Community
  • Contact
  • Cost Of Living
  • E. Roll

With you at every step

Below you can find a selection of hymns and readings that you may find useful when thinking about a funeral. If you would like any guidance or advice do talk to your minister.

Hymns

To listen to part of these hymns you could visit the church of England website (https://churchofenglandfunerals.org/stepbystep/) ‘CHOOSING A HYMN’

Hymns for adults
  • Abide with me
  • All things bright and beautiful
  • Amazing grace
  • Be still for the presence of the Lord
  • Dear Lord and Father
  • For the beauty of the earth
  • Great is thy faithfulness
  • The Lord is my shepherd
  • Jerusalem
  • Lead us heavenly Father lead us
  • Lord of all hopefulness 
  • Lord of the dance
  • Love divine all loves excelling
  • Make me a channel of Your peace
  • Old rugged cross
  • The day thou gavest
  • The King of love my shepherd is

Hymns for children
  • Christ be beside me
  • Thank you for the gifts we treasure
  • There is a place

Popular readings

The Ship by Bishop Charles Brent
I am standing on the seashore. A ship sails in the morning breeze and starts for the ocean. She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her till at last she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says, ‘She is gone’.
Gone! Where? Gone from my sight – that is all. She is just as large in the masts, hull and spars as she was when I saw her, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to its destination. The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says, ‘She is gone’, there are others who are watching her coming, and other voices take up a glad shout: ‘There she comes’ – and that is dying.

Remember Me by Christina Rosetti
Remember me when I am gone away,
gone far away into the silent land;
when you can no more hold me by the hand,
nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
you tell me of our future that you planned:
only remember me; you understand
it will be too late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
and afterwards remember, do not grieve:
for if the darkness and corruption leave
a vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
better by far that you should forget and smile
than that you should remember and be sad.

Crossing the bar by Alfred Lord Tennyson
Sunset and evening star;
and one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
when I put out to sea.

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
too full for sound and foam,
when that which drew from out the boundless deep
turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
and after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness or farewell,
when I embark.

For tho’ from out our bourne of Time and Place
the flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
when I have crost the bar.

If I should go by Joyce Grenfell
If I should die before the rest of you,
break not a flower nor inscribe a stone,
nor, when I’m gone, speak in a Sunday voice,
but be the usual selves that I have known.
Weep if you must: parting is hell.
But life goes on.
So sing as well.

Bible readings

  • John 14.1 - 6, 27  Jesus’ Parting Words to His Disciples  
14 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. 2 In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. 4 And you know the way to the place where I am going.”  5 Thomas said to him, “Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?” 6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. 27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid.

  • Revelation 21.1 – 7   A New Heaven and A new Earth
  • I Corinthians 13         The Way of Love
  • Psalm 23                    The Lord my Shepherd 
  • Ecclesiastes 3.1 – 8  A Time for All Events in Life
  • Psalm 139                  O LORD, you have searched me and known me.
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